If you ask me what make me grow up a lot, I will tell you: marry. Then what is the biggest and most impressive thing for marry? Wedding.

 

That is why my wife and I spend all our holiday of one year in China this time.

And it is still not enough.

 

Because my wife and I are both not in China and do not have enough time to prepare our wedding, our parents have to do that. It is really a huge project, every detail can use out all your energy. We know these work should belong to us, like other new couples, but we do not have time. My parents did every thing, negotiating with wedding-photo studio, buying candys, wedding-dress, renting cars, searching for the wedding-orgnizer, inviting and ranging guests, booking restraunt, etc...

We do not know how tired they are, but even though what we need to do is following the order, we felt exhausted.

 

My wife's parents and uncle also did a lot of things for our wedding. Without our relatives' help, we can not imagine how we can finish this work.

 

There are also many friends, our parents' friends, our friends, gave us a lot of help. They did not ask anything, just did what we required.

 

The wedding is very nice, it is a milestone in our life. I told me before the wedding: do not cry. But when we hug our mothers and said our love-words, we can not help cry. I can feel the tear in my eyes and see my wife crying. But we were happy and excited that day. Many friends came from very far place, Germany, Qinghai, and Beijing.

 

From that day, we were not two persons any more, we were one family. We will beat all the difficulties in our life, share every happy and sad moment. We have got the wishes from our parents, relatives and friends!

 

We also wish everyone could have a good happy life, and enjoy their lives!

 

Thank you all!

 

 

八月十六号，我们结婚了！从此，zfz成为我的妻子，我的太太，夫人，老婆和媳妇儿！

 

一场盛大的婚礼，集结了所有爱我们的人的帮助。我们的父母即亲人，为此倾注了大量的精力和时间，我们两个在国外无法自己操办此事，但是我们心里深知这其中的操劳并且感到愧疚。父母的朋友，我们的朋友，借车借摄像机，搬东西，订酒店，组织协调，这些仅仅靠我们一家之力显然无法完成，各位，谢谢啦！那些不远万里来参加我们的婚礼，百忙之中来为我们送来祝福，以及来不了致电祝福的朋友们，还有因为种种原因没有得到通知但是在做梦的时候祝福我们的朋友们，谢谢你们！

 

今天是九月十六号，我们结婚整整一个月，只是一个月前，我们还在国内，现在则在他乡。可是我却还能感受到一个月前的兴奋与激动，那一刻是难忘的，唯一的，神圣的，从此我们作为一个新的家庭单位参与到社会活动中来，我们将共同面对困难，度过幸福与苦难，我们是在也不能分开的一个整体。

 

再次感谢所有祝福我们的亲人和朋友，也祝福你们！

 

我们在婚礼上对对方的告白：

 

我对妻子：

据说，前世五百次的回眸才换来今生的一次擦肩而过，

而我们，用五年来八千公里的思念，才换来这幸福的一刻。

这条短短的红地毯，我们用了八年的时间才走完，

八年的等待是漫长的，而后几十年的厮守确实短暂的，

我将在后面短暂的厮守中认真的对你说：

我爱你！

 

妻子对我：

 

我们牵手八年，把年终我们经历过很多事情，

在这里，在各位亲朋好友面前，我想对你说几个谢谢。

首先谢谢你在我回国的时候对我悉心的照顾；

然后谢谢你为我们的团聚做出的努力；

平时有时候可能我有点任性，谢谢你的宽容；

贾树新，我爱你，

让我们相爱，相知，相偎到永远。

 

 

很快，又有很多好友相继要结婚了，很遗憾我们无法参加他们的婚礼，各位兄弟，我们在这里默默地祝福你们了！祝你们婚姻美满，阖家欢乐，早生贵子啦~！

 

2009年9月16日，德国宿舍内记下留念